it is all her fault!

his fault, her fault, it is even God's fault. when things don't go according as we wish, our automated defense kicks in and suddenly all is to blame. we remain innocent placing all resposibility on others. sounds familiar? tonight, i blame my wife too! yep! she is at fault. making me put on weight when i am trying to stay fit. she cooks such nice meals lately so much so i eat like a kuda. heh! her cooking has improved leaps and bounds since we moved here. both of us used to eat out all the time when we were residing in the city. now whenever she comes back from the city, she does a lot of cooking, baking, deserts and all. her cheese cakes are great and i must say that she is good at it. seriously, God is helping us along as we 'trudge' along this uncertain path which we chose.
anyway, back to the blaming game. sometimes i think there are no answers for our many questions as to who is to blame, we should just accept all and sundry as just experiences of life. good and bad, for or against, all are meant to shape us, mold us.